Paramour's Pains

I look inside my heart
Only thing I find is loneliness
I wonder where the happiness escaped to
But I looked deeper
I find the root cause
I'm the cause of my loneliness

I look inside my heart
I find a face
I find the love of my life
But I look again
I see her eyes closed
She refuses to look at me
I caused it all

I look inside my heart
I see pain
I see anger
I see darkness
But I see a little light
A light that I ignited
A light turning dim
I tried to bring her back
She refused to give her hand

I look inside my heart
I ask
What's valentines without love?
The answer lies outside my heart
A day like any other
Thursday Is the day for me

I look outside my house
I see love all around
But then again
Love with lies
Lies that re unending
Hearts broken
Tears shed
Pain is real

Love is beautiful
But they say
Not a bed of roses
Love is kind
But they say
Give it to all
They end up hurting each other

This is the story
*Thursday*
14/02
A day when the flowers feel pain
When the nature is ruined
All in the name of fake love

Thursday
14/02
Work as usual for me
Heart remains pumping
Heart remains crying
Heart remains closed
Heart remains occupied
By the hidden eyes with tears

That's the story of Thursday
14/02
Let's wait and see
I don't tell the future
But I learn the tides!

Wait!
Is it true they love each other?
Is it true the flower is a sign of their love?
Is it true that the dates mean a lot?
Is it true?
IS IT TRUE!

#Delightpen
©Olajide2019™

Music🎶

Music is poetry
An expression to the heart entry
Music so freeing, I felt I could dance on air
Out of tune of course, but I didn't care.

It creates a story for everyone's life
As if it understands your struggles and strife
It's impossible to stop, it's purpose will be served
As if not to judge on whether or not you deserve

Music teaches me everything I do.
After hearing the words, you know it suits you.
Without music, I don't know what I would do.
When I'm feeling bad, it's the only place I can go to.

The rhythm, and of course the beat.
Moving side to side and dancing the floor.
Feel the music flowing all through your feet.
The beats so good, it makes you want some more.

Each sliver of sound buzzing in the brain
The lyrics with a thought about meaning
put together with the guitar as it's loud screaming
The melody that returns to bring my life back again

Made from things happening in real life.
If you listen closely there is a song.
Some are love and some are blunt as a knife.
I can listen to music all day long.

For music is a gift from God’s cool book
And we get a chance to take a look
So just close your eyes and start to sway
Let your music of life take you away.

#Delight_pen
©Olajide2019™

WHY MEN ARE CALLED "GROOM”, AND THE WOMAN
“THE BRIDE” ON WEDDING DAY?..
Why is the newly wedded man called groom and
the woman called bride? A friend of mine got tired
of his wife just about six months after wedding. He
complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he
went on to say that he was sure that he made a
mistake. I did not respond immediately because I
knew I must tell him that right thing, so I went
home. And that is what birth this message.
Many men have broken up with their wives because they end up not being the wife that they
have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on
their wedding day was when the man was
commissioned for the new task. Nobody calls the
woman wife on her wedding day but bride,
because it is the man that will groom his bride to become the wife. That is why the man is called
‘bridegroom or groom’ and the word grooming
has to do with patiently nurturing, teaching,
tending and helping someone to become what he
or she should be. It is therefore believed that a man
that takes a woman to the altar of marriage is matured enough to patiently groom his bride to
become the wife.
The man is not supposed to just expect the bride to
automatically become the wife, she must be
groomed. It is clear that many of us men have
unnecessary expectations when we were getting married, we want some magic to happen to our
wives, we want them to become what we have had
in mind about who we want our wives to be; not
considering the fact that the woman does not
know what is on your mind except you teach her.
Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes time and we
can only expect something from someone that
knows what we want.
So, before you think of breaking up: Have you
groomed her?
Have you given her time to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a
hawk?
God often brings people that are opposites of each
other together in marriage so that they can help
each other in their place of weaknesses. If your
wife is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed?
The problem with many of us is that we don’t
accept people before attempting to change them. Of
course, our wives are not from our backgrounds,
so it will take time for them to adjust.
Stop trying to change her, accept her, love her, teach her and be patient with her; that is what
grooming is all about. She is going to be your wife
but she is your bride now, so groom her. Stop
complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you
a hawk, she cannot fly so be patient with her.
I don’t believe that your marriage can’t work, be patient and allow God to help you. Thanks.

The fact of life is that we all sometimes have some bad days. Bad days meaning, days when things don't go the way we expect or the way they are supposed to. It has nothing to do with whether or not we are good or bad people. I'm talking about the situation when you know in your heart to have done no evil or wronged no one. That is, you have a clean and clear conscience. And yet something major goes wrong in your life. When this happens, it is not a time to blame or pity yourself. There is no reason to do that . You have done no wrong. And that will only worsen your situation. The best as question to ask yourself in such moment is not "why?" but "how?". Don't say "why me?" There is no apparent reason. You just happen to be the victim of that misfortune. Ask yourself how you can put yourself together and rise above that challenge. If you are alive, there is hope. Be hopeful!

#Team_HkH

............................#Hello_My_Love....................................

No one knows 'bout the things that I've been through with you
There were times I drive you nearly mental
But when you're mad, you're still beautiful
And I know that I'm punching way above
So lucky that we fell in love
Sometimes I wonder am I enough?
No one knows 'bout all the good things you do
When people take advantage of you
Your heart is pure and so beautiful
And I know that it's just the way you are
Father's eyes but mother's daughter
And now I found someone with all the boxes I want ticked
'Cause your love is all I ever wanted
Set my heart on fire, I needed something
This is all I wanted to be, you and I
Hello, my love
I've been searching for someone like you
For most of my life
Happiness ain't a thing I'm used to
You could have fallen hard for anyone
Plenty of fish in the sea, hey now
For all of time, now I know
It's just my angel and me..........

Travel, make memories, have adventures.
 Because i guarantee when you're on your death bed, you won't think about that flashy car you bought or the 20 pairs of designer shoes you owned. But you will think about that time you got lost in your favourite city, the nights spent falling in love under the stairs, the morning you woke up and watched the sunrise and all the beautiful you met along the way. you will think of the moment that made you truly feel alive.. and at the very end, those memories will be only possessions that you own...
 Take pictures of everything.

What a wonderful world.